where thoughts materialise.

So we're into the sixth version of my blog after the last version hung around for a year or so.

Now, a bit of info on this image. This photo was taken one lovely spring afternoon, featuring the iconic Old Well from the UNC Chapel Hill campus. I would like to think of this image as a tribute to my time in UNC Chapel Hill, the awesome friends I made and the memories I now hold dear.

A milestone in my life indeed.

I've dropped the tagboard cos its useless and taking eons to load. But thanks to Angela who helped me set it up, I still do like and will miss the pink interface.

So yeah, it's the sixth one you fellas!

Yours.

27 April 2008

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Thursday, March 30, 2006

If I rush to fill your void, and you rush to fill mine, is this relationship then validifiable?

Of course, I do not think validifiable exists in the dictionary but you guys know what I mean. "Valid" + "-if(y)" + "-able", i.e able to be validified.

I don't know really. We are creatures of emptiness here and there, blankness which creates the feeling of yearning and pining and want. Oh that thirst of desire! We move from city after city, to sojourn and dwell. And we never stop till we find satisfaction that our nihility are filled somehow.

Inside us, nothingness. But hope remains.

It's neat, to think that something as depressing as nothingness breeds hope instead of despair.
And as Jason Mraz might sing: It takes a night to make it dawn. And it takes a day to you yawn brother. It takes some old to make you young. It takes some cold to know the sun. It takes the one to have the other.

Yes, you get the drift. And no, I am not in love or am falling in love or is confused about love. I am no where near love at all. So PLEASE, with the best frame of your rational mind, do not be too quick to diagnose me the next time we meet. So YM, who is that secret new squeeeeeeze you have?? You're alwaaaays writing about some mysteeeeeerious person. I'm over that.

If I rush to fill your void, and you rush to fill mine, is this relationship then validifiable?

I suspect it takes more than a void to validify a relationship, and I hope people realise that. The void is necessary but not sufficient.

So blah blah blah. It is a perennial debate that would go on forever. And I do not have time for forever, or believe in it either (See previous post). So I should really fall asleep.

Gnite.

nimgnoy let the night fall at 11:27 PM

3 comments

3 Comments:

At 3:10 AM, Anonymous said...: so whos ur new squeeze???

may yees boy
At 1:32 PM, Anonymous said...: bro, calm down yah... don think too much about things..
At 5:36 PM, nimgnoy said...: that you jon? haha im not agitated lah. jus thinking aloud.

joe. my latest squeeze is my osim isqueeze.